Friday, June 7, 2013

Welcome The Interruptions

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Kids. They mess up our lives. They make us recalibrate our plans because there is no knowing where their spontaneity leads us.

There was this one morning, I was marveling at how the whole house was so peaceful - it was the weekend and there were no traffic noises that early, birds were chirping, best of all, my babies were still sleeping. I thought to myself, "So my life can be this harmonious when there are no children." Uninterrupted.

Before the kids came, the hubby and I would sleep in till mid morning, then crawl out of bed for brunch. Everything is in a comfortable routine. To the extent that it becomes boring and dry sometimes. So when we parents wished that such mornings will become a norm, we may want to wish again. Wouldn't our lives be so mundane if we get what we wished for?

As much as I enjoyed soaking in the tranquility of a quiet beginning to my day, it was way more fun to hear my babies fill the house with their antics. There is something to look forward to everyday; something new always. My babies will grow up to be teenagers one day and I can have my undisturbed life then; their childhood will pass in a flash if I don't savor the moment. 

For now, I just want to S-A-V-O-R  T-H-E  M-O-M-E-N-T. And yes, I welcome the "interruptions" to my life. 
And I could hear the little one babbling in his cot when I was rounding up this thought, so I'm gonna sneak into the room to peep and make his day with the sighting of mommy, followed by smacking kisses on his barely-awakened face! Yummyz! 
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Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Double The Joy

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To be honest, when I had kid number one, I didn't think that I will be having kid number two so soon. And if you had leave me to my own planning, I might not have the courage to go for a sibling for Jaeden since the older he gets, the easier it becomes to manage our lifestyle - no need to draft mental checklists of milk bottles, warmed breast milk, chilled breast milk everytime we head out.

But the pros of having children with a close age gap have its winning edge in that:

1. Everything is still fresh in your mind; breastfeeding, pumping, night feeds, burping, 
    weaning, vaccination etc.
2. It is easier to plan itineraries as both kids will have similar capabilities/ limitations with regards to  
    where you can go and what you can do.
    But the biggest motivation for me at the end of a busy work day will be:
3. To see the kiddos interact with each other. They can be so amusing, yet so endearing. I find myself 
    missing my babies at work more than when I had one. I feel that the toil of getting house chores done 
    everyday all worthwhile when I see my darling boys. It's not that I am a great mom or what to think this
    way. It's just that the equation works out and the returns on the investment are substantial to me. You'd
    get what I mean.

This is what makes me tick everyday
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Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Kodak Moment: Sailor Boy!

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<31 Mar 2013>
My darling sailor boy in his outfit from Ah Um and Ah Pek. Cuteness to the max!
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Tuesday, April 9, 2013

My Brand of Lollipop

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People say that from 3 months onwards, babies love to stuff their thumb, fingers, or even the whole hand altogether into their mouths. There's no stopping for this lil' one. I wonder if it is just a phrase or due to the fact that I don't give him the pacifier? Perhaps time will tell.
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Monday, April 8, 2013

Kodak Moment: I Want A Bite Too

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<18 Mar 2013>
4-month-old Jovan eyes every morsel of food eagerly. I don't remember Jaeden being this excited at that age.
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Friday, April 5, 2013

Kodak Moment: Chuck-a-Jovan-dear

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<12 Feb 2013>
My playful boy loves a good tease anytime.
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Thursday, April 4, 2013

Hello 2013!

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I disappeared for the better half of 2012 - there were lots going on.
 
A brief recap:
First we were trying to sell our flat, and then buy another. The timeline did not tie in nicely and we had to move in with my in-laws while waiting for our flat to be ready. Packing up and shifting house must be the most laborious task to a pregnant woman; it was no joke since we had to juggle that along with a one year plus toddler; we couldn't move at the pace we wanted to. And Baby Jovan arrived. I did confinement, oversee the new house's renovation during maternity and am now back to contribute to the GDP of the nation. And hopefully back to blogging in between pockets of time.

I must commend mummies who have more than one kid, no helper and are still able to blog actively. After getting off from work everyday, we pick up our kids from my mother-in-law's (thank God for mother-in-laws). Once home, I plunge into the nitty-gritties of settling them down for bedtime. After they are asleep, provided I don't doze off together, I will get up and about with the housework - a few tasks every night. This is so that I won't need to work on household chores on the weekends. Weekends are set aside for quality time with our dearie kids. With all these, factoring in my pumping schedule, I'm left with hardly any time for myself, much less blogging. So how you mummies do it? Please share!

Busyness aside, the ride has been a joyous one.

Unedited from SIII <12 Feb 2013>
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